Question from Sis(Name withheld)
- Sir, can you list out 7 questions a lady should ask a man before going into a relationship with him
MY ANSWER
To be honest with you, there are more than 30 questions you need to ask a man before getting into a relationship with him but the truth is this…
As important as it is to know the right question to ask him, you must also be smart enough to figure out the truth to these questions yourself and not just rely on whatever the guy is telling you.
You have to open your eyes and observe things critically. You have to go behind him and ask questions about him and see things for yourself. You might run into problems if you depend on the words of a man who has fallen in love with you.
Let us go through the questions you need to either ask him or figure out the truth yourself.
- To What Level Does He Love And Fear God?
This question is very important. If you enter into a relationship with someone that doesn’t have an iota of love and fear of God, such persons can do and undo. - Ask them what their purpose, goal or vision is in life and what role you are coming to play in their.
Don’t get into relationship with people who are still confused about where they are going in life. Someone who has no destination can lead you into destruction.
- Ask Them About Their Past Relationships:
This can help you figure out what to expect from them, but you shouldn’t really judge them by their past. What is more important now is their present and their personal conclusion on their past. - Ask them if they are ready to do relationship in accordance with the commandment of God in the Bible.
- Ask them if they are ready for marriage in at least 2 years.
If a man is not ready to get married in the next 18 to 24 months, you might be wasting your time and resources getting into a relationship with such a man. - Ask them how they managed and balance relationship with work, family and friends.
I tell you, you don’t want to enter a relationship with someone who doesn’t give you attention. Always occupied with work, family and friends.
- Ask them about people who are dear to them right now. Let them tell you about the role of those people in their life. Also, ask them about their hobby.
These are some of the most important questions, there are still many other questions like, tribe, genotype, family traditions, values and belief systems, etc. I only gave you 7 as you requested.
I will be posting questions a man should ask a woman soon. Follow me on D’Babz Family so you don’t miss it.
I hope you are instructed?
Shalom!
D’Babz Family ✍
